Everyone knows about my battle with Man-child and his bedroom. The rule of the house is "Your room is Your Space to do what ever you want; however, it can not resemble or smell like a pig's pen". I can not tell you the battles we have had and the trash I have carted out of his room in the last year.
Two days ago, I went to his room to ask him a question and I stopped in my tracks. There were clothes everywhere, water bottles, paper and stuff. UGGGG ... I could not go past the door. I simply turned and left. He came running ... "Mommy, I know what you are going to say and Imma' clean my room later today. I promise". I said nothing. After all, what else could I say that has not been said before. So, I went to my bedroom and then I had to stop again in my tracks. OMG!!! My room was a mess.
Since I have been working extra hours at the bookstore, I have been too tired to clean and things have just settled where ever I've dropped them. I had about six pairs of sandals and two pairs of sneakers in the middle of the floor; at least three weeks of mail on the dresser that I needed to sort; a pile of blouses that needed to go to the dry cleaners; I'd purchased some new bed pillows,towels and wash cloths and they were still in the bags in the corner;a laundry basket that needed to be folded; my niece's toys (from the weekend I babysat); and a stack of books that I'd read and did not place on the shelves; and five empty water bottles. I was GUILTY of being a slob.
So, I cleaned my room. It took me two hours and it looks sooo much better. Man-child came in my room and said "Dang, What happened in here"? I said "What are you talking about"? We just looked at each other real goofy like for a minute and he walked away. When I came home from work the next day, half of his room was cleaned.
Can you see me SMILE!!
LOL! Do what works 'Cilla.
ReplyDeleteLOL...keep smiling.
ReplyDeleteLOL - I so the Man-child stories
ReplyDeleteone of the reasons that I like to know when my grands are coming over so I can make sure that my house is straight. Little that they know that it could have been in shambles minutes before they rang the bell.
What's that saying, do as I say, not what I do. LOL. This was great. Loved it. I'm sure you will have more stories now that he has started high school.
ReplyDeleteThanks everyone....I am learning the power of words and my actions.:-)
ReplyDeleteOh Cilla, that was priceless! Maybe you & Man-child are at a crossroad and the road won't be as bumpy. Fingers crossed. :-)
ReplyDeleteAWWWWW! That was the SWEETEST post! I LOVE IT! Now, I wish someone would come help me clean my roomZZZ. LOL!!
ReplyDeleteLOL At least he's trying
ReplyDeleteLOL! I'm smiling with you. :)
ReplyDeleteIsn't it funny how a place gets untidy when you're looking in the other direction?
Best!
Patricia
LOL! I'm smiling with you. :)
ReplyDeleteIsn't it funny how a place can get untidy when you're looking in the other direction?
Best!
Patricia
LOL! I'm smiling with you. :)
ReplyDeleteIsn't it funny how a place can get untidy when you're looking in the other direction?
Best!
Patricia