Man child started his summer job through the city’s youth
works program. We are very excited
because he has applied in the past and has never been selected. The program is only for 6 weeks but it is
better than nothing.
Preparing
for this summer job came with my usual reminders and hints – make sure you have
something clean to wear; make sure you have all your paper work together; be
sure to check the bus schedule so you know when to leave and how long it takes
to get there; make sure you have exact bus fare; make sure you have your cell
phone and it’s charged; and if you are not taking lunch, make sure you have
money to buy something to eat. I got the
usual response “I know Ma”. Man child
asked “do you think I should set my alarm clock?” My reply “Yes, since you will be heading to
college in a few months, you need to get in the habit of setting your clock and
getting YOURSELF up cause I am NOT going to be there”.
The big
day arrived and at 5:45 am his alarm clock rang and I heard him hit the snooze
button. For the next 20 minutes the
clock sounded every five minutes and he hit the snooze button. I sat at the dining room table, drinking my
tea, wondering how long I should let this continue. Finally, at 6:20 am, he headed to the
bathroom. Then, he decided that the
shirt he wanted to wear needed to be washed. He ran to the basement to put a
small load in the washer. I said
nothing. At 7:15 am, he was looking for
his hair brush, the iron and his wallet.
I asked again, “do you have everything you need and enough money?” His reply “Ma, I got this”.
I left
my house for work at 7:45 am. Man child
was still running around in this underwear.
I estimated that he should have left the house by 8:15 am to catch his
bus at 8:25 am. It is about a 20 minute
bus ride so he should arrive at the job site on time. I sat on the train with my kindle reading a
scripture to start my day. Then, I let
out a HUGE breath and I said a prayer for my Man- child.
You're growing up Cilla, and I'm so proud of you. That was the proper way to handle the situation.
ReplyDelete'Cilla, I loved this. Congratulations! I hope the remaining five weeks go well, too. Let's all say a prayer for your Man-Child.
ReplyDeletePatricia